In Nashville, they walk slowly, look up, and smile when they see you. And say how ya'll doing? I used to hate the word ya'll, but I'm beginning to think it's one of the friendliest words (if you could call it a word) in the english language. I came home from our trip swearing to be nicer and more considerate (especially to strangers).
Friday night after the expo we searched all over town for a good place to carb load (really just an excuse for me to eat pasta), and everywhere either had a long wait or didn't have anything that sounded good. Then my dad remembered this great restaurant, Mere Bulles, near our hotel that he'd been to once like a year ago. I asked if they had a table and if there was a dress code (my sister was in basketball shorts). The host smiled and said that he could seat us right away and that we were just fine as we were.
We sat down and because of a small miscommunication between servesr we didn't actually get to order anything until thirty minutes later. So we got another server about thirty minutes into our meal, and the rest of the evening was fantastic. I had a delicious warm goat cheese and spinach salad topped with an amazing strawberry viniagerette. They only had one pasta dish that didn't fill the bill for me so I ordered chicken crusted with honey, walnuts, and almonds with a cranberry BBQ sauce. I'm a lover of good food, and every part of our meal was outstanding. And the dessert was even better- chocolate cake, carrot cake to die for, and a strawberry dessert that was half cake and half cheesecake. What more could you want? All of that for free.
The manager came out after we finished our desserts and told us that he comped our entire meal because of the delay when we were first seated. I still can't believe it. That's what I call standing behind your product. He wanted us to know that the restaurant is not normally like that and the free meal was his way of apologizing. Even without the free meal I would've recommended the restaurant based on the food and service, but to me that shows class. That shows accountability and a complete understanding of how to really take care of a customer.

That's kind of how the rest of the weekend was as well- people treating people like they genuinely cared. Like they were actually people and not just things. Amazing really. So wherever you are, whether you're in DC or Alaska- maybe today just be a little nicer to people. Say good morning to your neighbor that gets on the elevator or smile at the cashier at the grocery store. Just lookup and notice the people around you and try and make their day a little brighter. And if it's a group of people, maybe even throw in a ya'll.

10 comments:
I love that I was raised in the south with that awesome southern hospitality and unmistakable southern drawl. I really miss it sometimes and love going back home to Texas when I can! I'm so glad that you have become a fan of "y'all." It's so much easier and quicker to say than "you guys."Look like you had a blast running the race. What a neat opportunity!
It's been so fun to read about your Nashville/Marathon journey. I love this post. I will be nicer today. My kids will be thanking you!
This is one of the main reasons I miss living in NC! People are so much friendlier and LIFE is important, instead of WORK being everyone's life.
That is totally one reason we love living in North Carolina. Especially now that I'm trying to get around with 2 babies... everyone helps!
hey i just wanted to say congrats on finishing the race strong when everybody else was slowing down! :-D great job!
Good work on the finish! Sounds like y'all had fun. And yes, I love that word and southern hospitality. And hearing people talk with southern accents.
I love the South! I miss it so much...I'm moving to Boston. A bit different. I never use y'all anymore because my students wouldn't know what I am saying.
um yes, can i say that when i first say that when i moved to georgia, i HATED the word 'ya'll'--and now its my most missed word....and the southern hospitality is one of the most things missed about the south. people in the north who have never experience southern hospitality just dont understand it--but the term is sooo true.....
Haha, I say y'all all the time. And you definitely ended up at a great restaurant! That's one thing I find to be fairly consistent around here... most places have exceptional customer service, and the ones that don't suffer because people always go elsewhere instead.
AMEN. amen, amen, amen!
I grew up with "ya'll" and hated it. Moved to northern va, LOVED it. swore i would never go back. I'm back, and swear i'll never leave. Something about growing up and starting a family makes the smiles and "ya'll" comforting.
come be my neighbor, brit! :)
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