When I got married, I had to adjust to a lot of things that were very new to me. Things like not being able to just leave in the middle of the night to go to the gym or not being able to eat rice with chicken every night of the week. In the process, I somehow lost a lot of the things that made me who I was. The past couple of months I've been trying hard to get back some of those characteristics I've lost.
Tonight I finally saw a glimpse of my former self at my racquetball match. Then the guy I was playing aced me six times in a row to win the game and brought me back to reality. But the point is that it still felt good, and I realized that I can do most everything that I did before I was married. My priorities have definitely changed some, but that doesn't mean I have to drop everything.
So the journey continues to find a good balance between old and new. How do you find balance between both worlds? Or do the two worlds just eventually merge to become one?